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omething They Don’t Have: A Burger Challenge[/title]

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Welcome to the Feel This Crew’s Burger Challenge #17! This challenge is all about learning to hold your frame and stand your ground when frames collide. We’re going to order something that’s not on the menu at an anonymous McDonald’s in New York City, and we’ll have to hang in there and try all kinds of different things, while still being nice and respectful.

We’ll also have to stand our ground when people behind us might hear what we’re trying to order. It can be intimidating, but remember that nothing bad will happen if you stand up for yourself. We can learn that people don’t really care if something weird is happening. Plus, we can test our skills by trying to find a Burger King that has wappers.

It was a fun experience, but I felt the pressure from the people around me, including the woman at the cash register. It was awkward, but overall it was a fun experience. I learned to keep things fun and positive, even when the person taking my order starts getting slightly pissed.

So, if you’re up for the challenge, go ahead and order something that’s not on the menu. Report back into the Feel This Crew Facebook group after completing the challenge. Good luck![/content

hing with Confidence: A Guide to Fearlessness[/title]

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Re-approaching is a challenge that can be daunting, but with the right mindset and a few tips, it can be a great way to gain confidence and work on fearlessness. In this blog post, I will discuss the basics of re-approaching, how to use familiarity bias to your advantage, and how to get into a flow state.

Re-approaching Basics

Re-approaching can be done both during the day and at night. Push the awkwardness aside and remember that people don’t really care and you’re not ruining their night. Focus on not being afraid and appreciate life and work on fearlessness.

When re-approaching, give value. Don’t harass people, be cool, and get out if the conversation isn’t going anywhere. Stand back and plow through. Give it a try and see how it goes. At the end of the day, give value.

Using Familiarity Bias

Familiarity bias is the idea that people are more likely to choose something that is familiar to them. For example, when you walk into a store and you want a sugary drink, you’re likely to choose Coca-Cola because it’s a familiar choice.

You can use this to your advantage when re-approaching. Create familiarity and acceptance by re-approaching the group and introducing yourself. You can also use examples like Coca-Cola to explain the concept of familiarity bias.

Getting into a Flow State

To reach a flow state, use fear to get into the state and report back in the fearless crew phase. Real approaches are good because they help you get to know people without putting pressure on them.

A simple mathematic formula is to go in, give a little bit of value, go back out, and every time you go back in, give a little more value. Read books to gain knowledge and potential and don’t have a scarcity mindset. Be confident and roll with your 7-6.

Conclusion

Re-approaching can be a great way to gain confidence and work on fearlessness. Use familiarity bias to your advantage and get into a flow state. Read books to gain knowledge and potential and don’t have a scarcity mindset. Be confident and roll with your 7-6. At the end of the day, give value.

Good luck and have fun![/content

A Great Challenge to Prove That Other Guys Are Not That Scary[/title]

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Mix sets is a great challenge to do because it’s a great proof that the other guys are not that scary. In this challenge, you approach sets of at least one boy and one girl, ideally in night clubs or public areas. Couples rarely go out together, so it’s unlikely the guy is her boyfriend. Even if they’re initially not nice, it’s amazing how fast they can turn around and you can even end up being friends with them. This can help you pull the girl as they can give you social proof.

Before you do the challenge, you need to know that you should very quickly get to know how they know each other, right? The easiest way to do that is to be like, oh, how do you know each other by the way, right? Be aware in your periphery for signs of aggression such as tucking in the chin or trying to elbow you out. If this happens, try to diffuse it by being nice and acknowledging the person.

Get out of the set. Let him fuck it up himself and then come back in later on when he’s not there anymore. Be aware of the science, defuse him if possible, and take the wind out of his sale. Get out of the set if someone is acting aggressively, let him act aggressively and the girl will pick up on that. Defuse him if necessary and be nice to take the wind out of his sale.

I’m focusing on providing value and giving a good time, and then getting out. Aggression should be avoided. I extend my hand, hold eye contact, and show that there’s no threat coming from me. This helps build social proof, which can be useful later on when I want to take a girl home. Befriending the couple can make it work, and they can be of help later on.

When talking to a couple, I ask how they met and how long they’ve been together. I wish them all the best and explain that it’s too early to get married at 20, as my parents have been divorced for longer than they have been married. It’s a little uncomfortable in the beginning, but when you feel resistance, you gotta do it. Get to know how people know each other quickly and then play it from there. Interrupt two people one on one dancing for bonus points. Ask showy questions like “Is this the best club on Saturday?” Use passive attraction to make yourself look cooler. If someone tries to make you jealous, it’s an unattractive trait. Introduce yourself with something interesting like “I’m a rapper from Austria”.

Ignore the guy and focus on the girl 99% of the time. If the guy is a big dick and he tries to get aggressive, get out and re-approach later. Very rarely will it be her actual boyfriend, but if it is, don’t just get out – be awesome, compliment them and become friends with them as it can be beneficial later on. With a friend zone guy, he could be aggressive and see you as a threat, so ignore him and focus on the girl.

Be aware of the relationship between the girl and the guy in the set, and play it from there. If the guy is a stranger, befriend him if you can. If he’s aggressive, get out and re-approach. If he’s friendly, acknowledge him in a friendly manner and chat with him to get to know him. This should take away your fear of mix sets.

This challenge is a great way to prove that the other guys you’re so afraid of are usually really nice and welcoming. It can help you build social proof, which can be useful later on when you want to take a girl home. It’s important to quickly find out how they know each other, and then play it from there. Be aware of the science, defuse him if possible, and take the wind out of his sale. Be friendly to the aggressive guy, try to win him over and befriend him, make sure he gets occupied, be respectful if he acts aggressively, and step in if necessary.

Depending on your ethics, you can either take the girl away from him or leave him alone. If he’s a player, he won’t see the girl you’re approaching as a sexual potential partner, so befriending him could make him a great wing. It’s okay to approach the guy or the girl first, and it’s important to quickly find out how they know each other. When a random guy approaches, focus on the girl as it doesn’t matter that he was two minutes earlier. Work on your own challenges and report back from the field. When approaching a set, it is beneficial to go in the direction that is most beneficial for that specific set.

Mix sets is a great challenge to prove that the other guys you’re so afraid of are usually really nice and welcoming. It can help you build social proof, which can be useful later on when you want to take a girl home. Be aware of the relationship between the girl and the guy in the set, and play it from there. If the guy is a stranger, befriend him if you can. If he’s aggressive, get out and re-approach. If he’s friendly, acknowledge him in a friendly manner and chat with him to get to know him. This should take away your fear of mix sets.[/content

Public Transport: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Making Connections[/title]

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Public transport can be a daunting place. With so many people around, it can be hard to make a move and approach someone. But with a few tips and tricks, you can learn to overcome your fear and make meaningful connections.

Understand the Concept

The first step to approaching someone in public transport is to understand the concept. What are you trying to do? What is the goal? Once you understand the concept, you can start to practice it.

Practice Makes Perfect

Once you understand the concept, it’s time to start practicing. You need to practice it over and over again until you get it right. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. The more you practice, the more comfortable you’ll become with the process.

Be Prepared

When you’re ready to make a move, it’s important to be prepared. Have a few conversation starters in mind, and be ready to go with the flow. Don’t be afraid to show your personality and be yourself.

Be Confident

Finally, it’s important to be confident. People can sense when you’re nervous, so try to stay calm and collected. Remember, most people are just as nervous as you are.

Public transport can be a great place to make connections. With a little bit of practice and confidence, you can overcome your fear and make meaningful connections.

So, let’s rock it![/content

to get out of your comfort zone and practice your social skills. You’ll be surprised at how much you can learn and how much fun you can have.

[title]The Dance Floor Challenge: Unleash Your Inner Fearless Crew Member[/title]

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We’re gonna do the dance floor challenge now, where we approach girls without asking any questions. This will help us tackle the fear of loud environments, running out of things to say, and feeling like we don’t fit in. How many sets you do is up to you, but post in the Fearless Crew Facebook group how good you’re feeling afterwards. We can also do a couple of night game challenges in one day or just one and then go straight to regular game. Let’s rock!

Today we’re at a nightclub with a big dance floor area and walk around area. We’re going to do a couple of challenges at the same time to get them in for the night game challenges. I personally prefer this, but you can do a couple of challenges for one challenge and then have the rest of the night to regular game. Even though I was feeling lazy and didn’t want to do anything, I pushed myself because I knew I wanted to do a challenge. It was easier because I had done all the challenges so far and my willpower has been trained from the cold showers, so it’s easier for me to put in the work and go hustle. Let’s go!

My name is Max. Good to meet you. I’m a rapper and I’m dropping all these g-slang terms that I have no idea about because I’m a stupid white metal fan that has no idea about rap. It’s like the digital age has got us, you know? I like to tease girls how many followers more I have on Snapchat. Someone told me to care, but it doesn’t work. I just watched that movie about NWA, Straight Outta Compton, so I feel like a total D.D. rap star. I’m drinking my water, oh cheers, by the way. We’ll talk more about this later. That was a weird handshake, I gotta say. Not too bad. What are you drinking? Oh, how shit. Ask the question and get a good imagination. Make yourself imaginative and drop more of that g-slang.

I used to like rock music, but now I’m all in gags to rap. My plan for the next five years is to make a lot of money and then get surgery so I’m black. I used to think hip-hop is not real music, but after watching Straight Outta Compton, I realized it’s cool. Mistake, Mack. I want you to see my mistakes and realize it’s not a big deal. Fear of perfection – fuck it, let’s see how it goes.

I’m just driving around with it, acting like I was black, but I’m too white for that. I like how you just hold eye contact, that’s pretty cool. I don’t know what I need, but I do enjoy it here. I smelled weed earlier, maybe it was this guy. Anyway, I gotta go do some more dance floor approaches. You’re not hot in this? Yeah, I love that. Oh, I love your style of dancing, very fancy. You know I can’t dance, I’m too white for this shit. So I’ll just stand there and dance like that. Let’s fight!

I’m motivated to do the robot dance and I like your fashion sense. I’m wearing nine dollar M-shirt and pants that are not black anymore. I usually wear jogging pants but when I go outside I have to wear real pants. I’m in Georgia and I’ve been told it has the hottest girls so I packed my stuff and went there. My friend tried to dance voluptuously to get my attention but I ignored her and now she wants my attention all the time. She asked if we can dance and she’s basically saying she’s the hotter one here. I don’t want to have the tension so she apologizes.

Apologizing is a huge indicator of interest, so if the girl apologizes for her friends, it’s a good sign. Pulling her or her friend is an option, but for now, ignore her to create a lack of validation. To pull her, share natural content and don’t ask questions. Do the challenge in any dive bar with a dance floor and post in the Fearless Crew Facebook group for feedback.

Project your voice and keep it relaxed by using deep belly breathing. Keep your sentences short and precise, and use the pendulum technique to keep eye contact while talking: lean in a little bit towards her ear, talk, then pendulum back to maintain eye contact. When you are taller, keep your spine straight while leaning in.

Step forward, turn her ear and make eye contact. Acknowledge her friends and show them respect. Be aware that girls are on the dance floor to move their body, feel sexy and have a good time in the music, not to cherry pick the hot girls.

I love comparing the dance floor to the gym; for me, the gym is about getting in touch with my body, zoning into metal music and pushing myself. That’s exactly what I want to do in the gym, so if a hot girl approaches me, she needs to show respect for that.

I’m gonna kidnap her real quick. I’ll bring her right back. Force yourself to dance like an idiot, do challenges like these so you at least have fun there, befriend the friends with a couple of high fives and introductions, then isolate her and ask her to go grab drinks with you.

We re-approached her outside and kept a short, precise and fun conversation on the dance floor. We also learned about transitions from the dance floor, make-outs, polls and more.

Do yourself a favor and go out and do the challenges – anyone can do them! It’s a great way to get out of your comfort zone and practice your social skills. You’ll be surprised at how much you can learn and how much fun you can have.[/content