We’re gonna do the dance floor challenge now, where we approach girls without asking any questions. This will help us tackle the fear of loud environments, running out of things to say, and feeling like we don’t fit in. How many sets you do is up to you, but post in the Fearless Crew Facebook group how good you’re feeling afterwards. We can also do a couple of night game challenges in one day or just one and then go straight to regular game. Let’s rock!

Today we’re at a nightclub with a big dance floor area and walk around area. We’re going to do a couple of challenges at the same time to get them in for the night game challenges. I personally prefer this, but you can do a couple of challenges for one challenge and then have the rest of the night to regular game. Even though I was feeling lazy and didn’t want to do anything, I pushed myself because I knew I wanted to do a challenge. It was easier because I had done all the challenges so far and my willpower has been trained from the cold showers, so it’s easier for me to put in the work and go hustle. Let’s go!

My name is Max. Good to meet you. I’m a rapper and I’m dropping all these g-slang terms that I have no idea about because I’m a stupid white metal fan that has no idea about rap. It’s like the digital age has got us, you know? I like to tease girls how many followers more I have on Snapchat. Someone told me to care, but it doesn’t work. I just watched that movie about NWA, Straight Outta Compton, so I feel like a total D.D. rap star. I’m drinking my water, oh cheers, by the way. We’ll talk more about this later. That was a weird handshake, I gotta say. Not too bad. What are you drinking? Oh, how shit. Ask the question and get a good imagination. Make yourself imaginative and drop more of that g-slang.

I used to like rock music, but now I’m all in gags to rap. My plan for the next five years is to make a lot of money and then get surgery so I’m black. I used to think hip-hop is not real music, but after watching Straight Outta Compton, I realized it’s cool. Mistake, Mack. I want you to see my mistakes and realize it’s not a big deal. Fear of perfection – fuck it, let’s see how it goes.

I’m just driving around with it, acting like I was black, but I’m too white for that. I like how you just hold eye contact, that’s pretty cool. I don’t know what I need, but I do enjoy it here. I smelled weed earlier, maybe it was this guy. Anyway, I gotta go do some more dance floor approaches. You’re not hot in this? Yeah, I love that. Oh, I love your style of dancing, very fancy. You know I can’t dance, I’m too white for this shit. So I’ll just stand there and dance like that. Let’s fight!

I’m motivated to do the robot dance and I like your fashion sense. I’m wearing nine dollar M-shirt and pants that are not black anymore. I usually wear jogging pants but when I go outside I have to wear real pants. I’m in Georgia and I’ve been told it has the hottest girls so I packed my stuff and went there. My friend tried to dance voluptuously to get my attention but I ignored her and now she wants my attention all the time. She asked if we can dance and she’s basically saying she’s the hotter one here. I don’t want to have the tension so she apologizes.

Apologizing is a huge indicator of interest, so if the girl apologizes for her friends, it’s a good sign. Pulling her or her friend is an option, but for now, ignore her to create a lack of validation. To pull her, share natural content and don’t ask questions. Do the challenge in any dive bar with a dance floor and post in the Fearless Crew Facebook group for feedback.

Project your voice and keep it relaxed by using deep belly breathing. Keep your sentences short and precise, and use the pendulum technique to keep eye contact while talking: lean in a little bit towards her ear, talk, then pendulum back to maintain eye contact. When you are taller, keep your spine straight while leaning in.

Step forward, turn her ear and make eye contact. Acknowledge her friends and show them respect. Be aware that girls are on the dance floor to move their body, feel sexy and have a good time in the music, not to cherry pick the hot girls.

I love comparing the dance floor to the gym; for me, the gym is about getting in touch with my body, zoning into metal music and pushing myself. That’s exactly what I want to do in the gym, so if a hot girl approaches me, she needs to show respect for that.

I’m gonna kidnap her real quick. I’ll bring her right back. Force yourself to dance like an idiot, do challenges like these so you at least have fun there, befriend the friends with a couple of high fives and introductions, then isolate her and ask her to go grab drinks with you.

We re-approached her outside and kept a short, precise and fun conversation on the dance floor. We also learned about transitions from the dance floor, make-outs, polls and more.

Do yourself a favor and go out and do the challenges – anyone can do them! It’s a great way to get out of your comfort zone and practice your social skills. You’ll be surprised at how much you can learn and how much fun you can have.