Practice Connection and Overcome Fear with Compliments

Giving compliments to 30 strangers is a great way to practice connection and overcome fear of other people. It also helps you learn how to give value and abandon the mindset of your approach equals leaching. Rejection is arbitrary, so even if you have a perfect approach, you can still get rejected. Be aware of how your body and vocal cords might tense up when talking to someone else. Start to control it and fear will lose its control over you. Let’s do it!

Complimenting Strangers

When complimenting strangers, it’s important to be genuine and sincere. For example, you could say “I love your style” or “I love that purse“. Everyone with a hat likes to be complimented, so don’t forget to give them a compliment too. Here are some examples of compliments you could give:

• I love your style.
• I love that purse.
• It’s a cool color.
• I love your hat.
• I love that scarf.
• I love that jacket.
• I love the way you walk.
• I love the color of the scarf.
• Very nice.
• Totally dig the backpack.
• Yo, cool hat.
• Yeah, I love that blue jacket.
• Blue jacket for the win.
• Yo, that’s a killer jacket.
• Oh, I love the shades, sir.
• I love that jacket.
• I love that gray hat.
• Oh, nice style, sir.
• Yeah, getting in the zone.
• Yo, it’s a very nice purse, man.
• Hey, nice style, man.
• I love your guy style.
• Very nice gray hat, man.

It’s a stretch of your comfort zone, but you’re giving something good to people.